Couples in any season of their journey. Whether you’re an engaged couple about to tie the knot or empty-nesters looking to enrich your connection, investing in your relationship will transform the quality of your life as a whole.
Note: This is not couples therapy. If you are looking to dig deep into the past, seek healing or navigate crises, please go to psycholgytoday.com to find a local therapist certified for this type of work.
To lay the groundwork for our work together, each of you will complete the official iEQ9 Enneagram online assessment. This 40-minute assessment is a live algorithm that uses fractal mathematics with a database of 1,300 questions to calculate your subconscious pattern of motivation. The results of this assessment determine your dominant Enneagram Type.
After completing, you will receive a customized, 42-page report that details your compulsive thought patterns and unique ways of being. Even if you already know your Enneagram type, this particular assessment is so accurate and informative that you will learn things about yourself and your partner that you have never realized before.
We will then explore the contents of your individual iEQ9 Enneagram profile in a 3-hour debriefing session. Here you gain insight into you and your partner’s strengths, weaknesses, core subconscious pattern of motivation, typical thinking and feeling patterns, blind spots, core fear, vices, world view, and more through the lens of your Enneagram Type. We will also explore your subtypes, wing influence, strain levels, conflict and triggers, and lines of tension and release.
You will leave this session on a whole new level self-awareness and appreciation for yourself and your partner.
In Phase 3, you’ll have coaching sessions over the course of six months to spark a deep, life-long journey of growth filled with self-awareness, integration, and balance.
Elements we may explore:
We have been married for 30+ years. While we are a good team in many ways, over the years we found ourselves living more and more ‘together alone’. Then, we were introduced to Kristie and LifeSpark. Using our reports and her on-point coaching, Kristie helped us develop a common language that allowed us to begin to re-engage as a couple in a way we hadn’t in a long time.
Joanne and Rob
Going through this journey of discovery with Kristie was a delight. So many personal insights leapt out at my wife and I. Kristie was humble and joy-filled – and safe.
Steve, senior pastor at Kensington Church
What I like about Kristie is that she is so personable, gentle and yet professional. When my husband and I met with her to go through our tests, she took her time, she let us ask a lot of questions, she was encouraging and yet she was not afraid to be honest. Anyone or couple or business would be so smart to hire Kristie to walk them through this very useful tool!
Chris
We’ve read countless books, attended many weekend seminars, were church small group members, and did couples’ therapy all to work on our marriage, and still often found ourselves unable to understand, or empathize with each other. We were not thriving as a couple. [Then we met Kristie.] We are so thankful for our time with Kristie and have taken away tools that have become a foundational part of our growth as individuals and rebuilding as a couple.
Joanne and Rob
We are complex humans trying to figure out how to navigate life more effectively and graciously. LifeSpark is a great way to grow personally and in life as a couple. I am so thankful these tools are available. Wish I had them years ago!
Steve, senior pastor at Kensington Church
